智慧
vinaya
趣旨一致
律蔵 臥坐具犍度 段落72
“It’s true, sir.” The Buddha rebuked him … “Foolish man, how could you act like this? This will affect people’s confidence …” After rebuking him … the Buddha gave a teaching and addressed the monks: “You shouldn’t make a monk get up who hasn’t finished his meal. If you do, you commit an offense of wrong conduct. If you’re asked to get up, and you’ve already refused an invitation to eat more, you should say, “Please go and get some water.” If the other goes, all is well.
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