律蔵 コーサンビー犍度 段落6
Na mayaṁ iminā bhikkhunā saddhiṁ yāgupāne nisīdissāma, vinā iminā bhikkhunā yāgupāne nisīdissāma. Na mayaṁ iminā bhikkhunā saddhiṁ bhattagge nisīdissāma, vinā iminā bhikkhunā bhattagge nisīdissāma. Na mayaṁ iminā bhikkhunā saddhiṁ ekacchanne vasissāma, vinā iminā bhikkhunā ekacchanne vasissāma. Na mayaṁ iminā bhikkhunā saddhiṁ yathāvuḍḍhaṁ abhivādanaṁ paccuṭṭhānaṁ añjalikammaṁ sāmīcikammaṁ karissāma, vinā iminā bhikkhunā yathāvuḍḍhaṁ abhivādanaṁ paccuṭṭhānaṁ añjalikammaṁ sāmīcikammaṁ karissāma. Bhavissati saṅghassa tatonidānaṁ bhaṇḍanaṁ kalaho viggaho vivādo saṅghabhedo saṅgharāji saṅghavavatthānaṁ saṅghanānākaraṇan’ti, bhedagarukehi, bhikkhave, bhikkhūhi na so bhikkhu āpattiyā adassane ukkhipitabbo”ti. Atha kho bhagavā ukkhepakānaṁ bhikkhūnaṁ etamatthaṁ bhāsitvā uṭṭhāyāsanā yena ukkhittānuvattakā bhikkhū tenupasaṅkami, upasaṅkamitvā paññatte āsane nisīdi, nisajja kho bhagavā ukkhittānuvattake bhikkhū etadavoca— “mā kho tumhe, bhikkhave, āpattiṁ āpajjitvā ‘nāmha āpannā, nāmha āpannā’ti āpattiṁ na paṭikātabbaṁ maññittha. Idha pana, bhikkhave, bhikkhu āpattiṁ āpanno hoti. So tassā āpattiyā anāpattidiṭṭhi hoti, aññe bhikkhū tassā āpattiyā āpattidiṭṭhino honti. So ce, bhikkhave, bhikkhu te bhikkhū evaṁ jānāti—‘ime kho āyasmanto bahussutā āgatāgamā dhammadharā vinayadharā mātikādharā paṇḍitā byattā medhāvino lajjino kukkuccakā sikkhākāmā, nālaṁ mamaṁ vā kāraṇā aññesaṁ vā kāraṇā chandā dosā mohā bhayā agatiṁ gantuṁ.
we won’t drink congee with him; we won’t sit in the dining hall with him; we won’t stay in the same room with him; we won’t bow down, stand up, raise our joined palms, or do acts of respect toward one another according to seniority. Because of this, there’ll be arguments and disputes in the Sangha; there’ll be schism, fracture, and separation in the Sangha,’ and if they understand the gravity of schism, they shouldn’t eject that monk.” The Buddha got up from his seat, went to those monks who were siding with the ejected monk, and sat down on the prepared seat. He then said to those monks: “If you’ve committed an offense, don’t refuse to make amends for it just because you think that you haven’t committed it. It may be that a monk has committed an offense. He doesn’t regard it as an offense, but there are other monks who do. If he knows, ‘These monks are learned and masters of the tradition; they’re experts on the Teaching, the Monastic Law, and the Key Terms; they’re knowledgeable and competent, have a sense of conscience, and are afraid of wrongdoing and fond of the training. They’re unlikely, because of me or anyone else, to act wrongly out of favoritism, ill will, confusion, or fear.
導線タグ: 上司,失恋,子育て,別れ,対人恐怖,食事,罪悪感
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